'If I Were a Student in South Dakota, Chances Are I Would Not Survive Into Adulthood.'

Earlier today, ACLU attorney Chase Strangio wrote a note to South Dakota legislators, urging them not to sign SB 1008, which targets transgender students in South Dakota. They didn't listen. Now, it's up to South Dakota Governor Dennis Daugaard to veto SB 1088 and make sure the government stops hurting vulnerable kids.

I am now 33 years old, and I have an incredible job and a loving family. I am proud of who I am and all that I have accomplished. But if I were a student in South Dakota right now, chances are I would not survive into adulthood.

I didn't realize that I was transgender until after college, but I struggled through high school. I felt a disconnect from my body and a feeling of shame that prevented me from fully embracing the world. I struggled with thoughts of suicide, drug use, and self-harm.

I am so thankful to be alive today. And I am alive, in part, because even in a time that was far less accepting of LGBT people, I never got the message in high school that being transgender was shameful. I was not ready to come out to myself during those years. Still, I am thankful that my teachers, administrators, and government representatives never sent me the message that I was so disgusting that I didn't deserve to share space with my peers. That message would have pushed me over the edge. That message would have found its way inside my already self-hating consciousness and prevented me from seeing the strength I ultimately found to survive.

Last weekend, Sen. Omdahl said of transgender young people, "I'm sorry if you're so twisted you don't know who you are," but we need a bill to protect other people from them. I keep hearing those words, imagining what it would have been like for 15-year-old me to listen to them. I would have been heartbroken.

Legislators in South Dakota voted on House Bill 1008, which required transgender students to be separated from their peers and forced into separate bathrooms and locker rooms. If this bill is signed, I do not doubt that there will be many transgender South Dakotans who will face bullying, harassment, and perhaps even death. We live in a time of crisis where messages like Sen. Omdahl's contribute to an epidemic of suicide in the transgender community. Almost half of all transgender individuals attempt suicide at some point in their lives.

I have lost too many friends to suicide and watched too many transgender young people take their own lives.

I urge South Dakotans and people across the country to take seriously what it would be like to be a young transgender person being told you are so freakish that others must be protected from you. Growing up is sometimes painful and isolating, no matter who you are. The last thing we need is for the government to take part in the bullying of our vulnerable kids.

I was lucky enough to survive and fight on my community's behalf. I hope today's vote doesn't prevent future advocates from growing into adulthood.